My transplant journey: a second chance at life
On April 12th, 2023, two phone calls changed everything. After months of treatments, hospitalizations, and the looming reality of a failing liver, I was finally on the list. The fight for life was real, and the understanding that someone else's passing could be my salvation brought with it a profound mix of hope and sorrow. This is my story, a testament to the incredible gift of organ donation.
The calls that changed everything
My journey to the transplant list was fraught with challenge. From mid-20 MELD to over 30, the numbers were a stark reminder of my deteriorating health. That first call on April 12th, while ending with the uncertainty of "six weeks, six months or longer," ignited a spark of hope. I had a fighting chance, but the moral dilemma lingered: for me to live, someone else had to die. It was a struggle within, a heavy truth to carry.
A gift of life arrives
The waiting was unexpectedly short. Less than four hours after the first call, at 7 PM, the second one came. A donor. In under 24 hours from that initial life-altering conversation, I was preparing for surgery. My new liver came from a man named Tom, who had tragically passed from a massive heart attack. His unforeseen death became my opportunity for life, a profound exchange I am forever grateful for.
The irreplaceable bond with my donor family
The fact that my survival depended on someone else's passing truly haunted me. That's why meeting Tom's family was so crucial. The bond we share is indescribable. Every member I've met has expressed their happiness that Tom's liver gave me life. To see his wife and sister sitting by my side, knowing Tom lived on through me—that moment, I wish everyone on the fence about organ donation could experience. It transforms loss into a legacy of life.
"When I have lived my life, what possessions do I need to take with me? My heart that quit pumping? My liver that quit filtering? My eyes that quit seeing? Or do I just need my soul and the joy that I can bring by allowing others to live with my unneeded parts. 'Cause where I'm going I don't need those to golf, love and sing!"
A grateful recipient, advocating for life